BloodrayneZA
Well-Known Member
Yup I speak from experience. We spend all our time and energy into something so bad, then when it ends, it's all for nothing and we spend years figuring out if we were the issue or if something was wrong with us.Thats damn great advice - I can honestly say that because thats where I am with my life right now (except for the relationship issue).
I woke up one day, said fukkit - I was an executive director - cruised in resigned - bummed around for a few months, and had a gas with all my SA mates - got the shits with not being employable in SA - fucked off to the US for two weeks, got a job and here I am - paid retirement (well, I do work but ......)
Thats damn good advice girl !! Love it!!
It took me 10+ years to recognise a narcissistic type and know that it's not my fault. Then we beat ourselves over not actually leaving earlier to avoid the damage that a narcissistic person does.
Im no longer taking shit from people like this. If you can't respect, then I'm moving on with my life.