Online Dating

[Blantyre]

I hope you have tried more than Tinder.

I tried Bumble recently and went on a date. I found out the lady was married and had a kid before but went just to up my social muscle without any intention. The lady said she was interested but felt I was not putting in as much effort. My psychological attitude may have had an effect but I am also introverted.

 

[scudsucker]

This is not different to the way I have approached job interviews in the past.

It is a slightly dickish thing to do, but without recent interview experience, how do I pass interviews? So I apply for places where I am unlikely to want employment and get the confidence I need for the interview at the place I do want to be.

 

[Nicholas]

I tried Bumble recently and went on a date. I found out the lady was married and had a kid before but went just to up my social muscle without any intention. The lady said she was interested but felt I was not putting in as much effort. My psychological attitude may have had an effect but I am also introverted.

That's the one where the woman initiates contact, right? I prefer that.

 

[Blantyre]

It is a slightly dickish thing to do, but without recent interview experience, how do I pass interviews? So I apply for places where I am unlikely to want employment and get the confidence I need for the interview at the place I do want to be.

We are meant to go to these things without much expectation. As long as you are civil and don't have bad intention, I don't see an issue. Women reject men all the time.

 

[Blantyre]

That's the one where the woman initiates contact, right? I prefer that.

Yes, it is. It is better than Tinder but still hard. After weeks of using it, I have only ever got three matches from women, Two did not respond.

I switched it to BFF (i.e friendship) and matches with guys are more common. It seems like online is so easy for women.

 

[Nicholas]

I wonder what the proportion of men to women is on these sites.

 

[satanboy]

I wonder what the proportion of men to women is on these sites.

Tinder has a gender imbalance, with 75% of users identifying as male.

Tinder Revenue and Usage Statistics (2024)

Tinder is a dating app that matches users to others based on geographic proximity. It designed (and patented) the swipe interface, in which a user swipes right to ‘like’ or left to ‘pass’. If two users both like each others, it’s a match, and they are then able to chat through the app. While...

www.businessofapps.com

 

[Rudolph Hart]

Tinder has a gender imbalance, with 75% of users identifying as male.

Tinder Revenue and Usage Statistics (2024)

Tinder is a dating app that matches users to others based on geographic proximity. It designed (and patented) the swipe interface, in which a user swipes right to ‘like’ or left to ‘pass’. If two users both like each others, it’s a match, and they are then able to chat through the app. While...

www.businessofapps.com

And many of the ‘women’ are bots?

 

[biometrics]

And many of the ‘women’ are bots?

Or they are women but are there for business, to lure you to their Instagram/Onlyfans pages to get you to pay for saucy pics/videos.

 

[Nicholas]

Tinder has a gender imbalance, with 75% of users identifying as male.

Tinder Revenue and Usage Statistics (2024)

Tinder is a dating app that matches users to others based on geographic proximity. It designed (and patented) the swipe interface, in which a user swipes right to ‘like’ or left to ‘pass’. If two users both like each others, it’s a match, and they are then able to chat through the app. While...

www.businessofapps.com

Aha!

 

[biometrics]

Decided to give this another go but I will be assisted with AI profile photos and text. Read a study that shows how effective this is. Lots of paid and some free tools. Will share later what I used but as an example:

DatingbyAI

Become the best version of yourself with the power of AI

datingbyai.com

 

[biometrics]

For free profiles this is pretty good, witty and free. You can regenerate sections until you are happy,

Profile Poet

Let our AI Dating Profile Writer turn your story into a captivating dating profile and start getting up to 3x more matches. Don't sell yourself short. Our AI dating profile generator takes your best features and spins it into a dating profile that will tell everyone you're witty and your dog...

app.yourmove.ai

 

[biometrics]

These sites have not considered that even simple questions like this is hard for the recluse.

LoveGenius - Magic AI that generates your Tinder & Bumble Bio

Instantly create catchy and attention-grabbing dating bios and get better matches on Tinder, Bumble and others!

www.lovegenius.io

 

[biometrics]

I've paid for datingbyai.com and photoai.me for photos. Was quite hard finding 20 photos of myself. Generation can take 1-6 hours apparently.

 

[biometrics]

 

[biometrics]

Got the photoai.me results and I'm actually quite happy, there are pics I can use.

 

[Nicholas]

Is this you, Biometrics?

 

[biometrics]

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Is this you, Biometrics?

No, check the first sample at photoai.me. I got the Tinder Pack, .

 

[Nicholas]

These sites have not considered that even simple questions like this is hard for the recluse.

LoveGenius - Magic AI that generates your Tinder & Bumble Bio

Instantly create catchy and attention-grabbing dating bios and get better matches on Tinder, Bumble and others!

www.lovegenius.io

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Not to mention still include mumbo-jumbo like star signs.

 

[Nicholas]

For free profiles this is pretty good, witty and free. You can regenerate sections until you are happy,

Profile Poet

Let our AI Dating Profile Writer turn your story into a captivating dating profile and start getting up to 3x more matches. Don't sell yourself short. Our AI dating profile generator takes your best features and spins it into a dating profile that will tell everyone you're witty and your dog...

app.yourmove.ai

By witty, do you mean over-the-top? Seeing some of what it has generated for me has me thinking that I could have some fun with this.