I have been affected by close friends and family suffering violent crime, but have not suffered it personally. Some of those who were directly affected were never the same again. I'm not waiting around until it's my turn, or even worse, the turn for someone in my immediate family.
I only need the Atlas reports and daily input in the WhatsApp community group to know that the odds of something happening are much higher than I previously assumed.
And it's more than just my home. It's the shops, social venues, hiking trails, other nature stuff, meeting clients at their offices etc. I have to always be hyper vigilant. Always check in mentally with where the family is, whether they are on time with their expected movements, make quick phone calls to say hi when actually I just want to make things are good their side.
For me, utopia is any society where the risk of violence is negligible. Whatever other business and life stresses await I can handle just fine.