Happy Meter

[satanboy]

2
Work idiots....grrrrrr

 

[OCP]

2
Work idiots....grrrrrr

You seriously need a new job!

Oh and today was about a 3.

 

[Düber]

5- The Germans have done fuck-all today.

My parts order is still being processed.

 

[LD50]

1 2 3 4 5 6
I dunno what to pick

 

[biometrics]

1 2 3 4 5 6
I dunno what to pick

No option for 7 8 9 10?

 

[LD50]

No option for 7 8 9 10?

No

 

[Düber]

8 - The Germans must be working night shift, my order is being picked.

 

[dabean]

8

Friday night, decent buzz going and stoned out of my gourd.

 

[satanboy]

8
Weekend + vacation

 

[Urist]

0
crazy ex-girlfriend came back and left again
3 times now

Learned that lesson the hard way - cut off all communication and had to block her on Whatsapp :-(

It's a complete fuckup, and very complicated

So the first time around, things got very serious. She has a history of being abused, I felt sorry for her. She also suffers from OCD and is very difficult to live with. Running around the house and cleaning up at 4am in the morning, going days without sleeping. One morning I discovered a syringe in the living room, with what is probably tik, unlocked her cellphone with her thumb-print while she was sleeping and discovered that she was inviting her junkie friends over to my house while i'm not there. On top of that, it appears that she was stealing from me to support her habits.
I asked her about it and she flipped, got dressed and ran off.
I took her kids to their grandmother and told her the story. Anyway.. she's not going to see her kids again.

2nd time around she came back to get some of her stuff, she was living with an abusive ex-boyfriend in the numbers gang, she looked like a concentration camp victim, helped her get to durban, she stayed there for two weeks.

3rd time she came back I treated her like a child, which she didn't like, so she ran off again to the same guy, apparently she wanted to be hurt, he took her to cape town where she's going to do fuck knows what... he'll probably pimp her out for drug money, she begged me to come and get her... which I didn't, now it's on my concience, maybe I could have handled it differently. I love her, but she fucks me up...

 

[LD50]

...now it's on my concience, maybe I could have handled it differently. I love her, but she fucks me up...

You need to kill that love, quickly.
Why go on a guilt trip for another's own bad decisions.

 

[Urist]

You need to kill that love, quickly.
Why go on a guilt trip for another's own bad decisions.

There must be some way I can help her. He took away her phone. Maybe go to the police or something. She's not a bad person, she's mentally ill and made some shitty decisions.

 

[LD50]

There must be some way I can help her. He took away her phone. Maybe go to the police or something. She's not a bad person, she's mentally ill and made some shitty decisions.

I know someone like that. Do what you can but in the end you always lose

 

[Urist]

I know someone like that. Do what you can but in the end you always lose

That's what everyone keeps telling me. The way I feel now, it's fine if I lose, don't care if she's just using me, but I can't stand watching her throw her life away like that.

 

[LD50]

That's what everyone keeps telling me. The way I feel now, it's fine if I lose, don't care if she's just using me, but I can't stand watching her throw her life away like that.

That's the choice she is making, not you. This fact doesn't change.
As soon as she makes the effort to move her life in a positive direction, you have something to work with.
"None so deaf as those that will not hear"

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[Smuggy]

7.5493..

 

[Tribs]

@Tribs , why so low?

Was just a bad day

 

[Tribs]

10

 

[Smuggy]

5...

 

[dabean]

That's what everyone keeps telling me. The way I feel now, it's fine if I lose, don't care if she's just using me, but I can't stand watching her throw her life away like that.

They're right. You can't help someone that doesn't want to change. She has to make the decision herself.