Nicholas
Well-Known Member
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depressed.
depressed.
<5
depressed.
I second that too. I’ve helped tons of people and the few I couldn’t help bec they didn’t want to change.They're right. You can't help someone that doesn't want to change. She has to make the decision herself.
same here - 3<5
depressed.
Really sad to hear thisIt's a complete fuckup, and very complicated
So the first time around, things got very serious. She has a history of being abused, I felt sorry for her. She also suffers from OCD and is very difficult to live with. Running around the house and cleaning up at 4am in the morning, going days without sleeping. One morning I discovered a syringe in the living room, with what is probably tik, unlocked her cellphone with her thumb-print while she was sleeping and discovered that she was inviting her junkie friends over to my house while i'm not there. On top of that, it appears that she was stealing from me to support her habits.
I asked her about it and she flipped, got dressed and ran off.
I took her kids to their grandmother and told her the story. Anyway.. she's not going to see her kids again.
2nd time around she came back to get some of her stuff, she was living with an abusive ex-boyfriend in the numbers gang, she looked like a concentration camp victim, helped her get to durban, she stayed there for two weeks.
3rd time she came back I treated her like a child, which she didn't like, so she ran off again to the same guy, apparently she wanted to be hurt, he took her to cape town where she's going to do fuck knows what... he'll probably pimp her out for drug money, she begged me to come and get her... which I didn't, now it's on my concience, maybe I could have handled it differently. I love her, but she fucks me up...
/offers some coffee???
Complete lack of drive and ambition
Meh.
/Notices the world's strongest arachnid carrying a mug of coffee. Gratefully accepts and in return gives the Spider a bottle of wasp-repellant./offers some coffee
No his pulse. Heartbeat. And with overweight people with high blood pressure, it is a good thing to monitor. He has the gadget to take actual readings withIt doesn't monitor blood pressure
Shit. Sorry man.-10
Gutted ... close friend collapsed and passed away this morning from a heart attack.