CloudStroller
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I have an 18-month-old boy who is a non-stop delight.
It's not the delight part that's the problem. It's the non-stop part.
How does any normal human being actually successfully get a child past the toddler stage without collapsing or going mad? We have another one on the way, due in January. Our first as a newborn was pretty easy to deal with, even until crawling. Once he started walking though, things got pretty crazy at home.
Working from home hasn't helped but I was starting to feel kind of overwhelmed even pre-lockdown. The wife is a stay-at-home mom (with a sideline in photography, though this is seldom more than a few hours a week) and it feels as though from standing up in the morning, every waking moment is either chores or management of the toddler (feeding, bathing, putting to bed) with a little bit of interaction here and there. I feel bad because on those rare occasions where I do get to take him to the park or dig in the garden or what have you, we all have lots of fun, but I get so little opportunity and I feel as though I should spend more time with him.
Has anyone lived through this process? What did you do?
It's not the delight part that's the problem. It's the non-stop part.
How does any normal human being actually successfully get a child past the toddler stage without collapsing or going mad? We have another one on the way, due in January. Our first as a newborn was pretty easy to deal with, even until crawling. Once he started walking though, things got pretty crazy at home.
Working from home hasn't helped but I was starting to feel kind of overwhelmed even pre-lockdown. The wife is a stay-at-home mom (with a sideline in photography, though this is seldom more than a few hours a week) and it feels as though from standing up in the morning, every waking moment is either chores or management of the toddler (feeding, bathing, putting to bed) with a little bit of interaction here and there. I feel bad because on those rare occasions where I do get to take him to the park or dig in the garden or what have you, we all have lots of fun, but I get so little opportunity and I feel as though I should spend more time with him.
Has anyone lived through this process? What did you do?