Best way to get over it is to get under a new one?

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Curious as to the various views regarding dealing with / getting over a shitty breakup.

Some people say to sow seeds until you feel better.

Others say to "take time" and "let things heal".

Yet others advise religion/drugs/meditation/jerking off at a gym/whatever.

Any suggestions or advice for what has worked for you?
It takes time to get over breakups, there's certain things/actions you would normally do, the way you conduct yourself and structure your life when you have a partner. My advice would be to work on yourself, the mind needs time to adjust and process what happened.

I went through a breakup earlier this year, it was pretty tough and I thought I would go back down the path of depression but our brains adapt when the time comes. I wouldn't advise you to jump into anything or anyone else until you're certain that you've moved on.

Realign your life to revolve around you, spend time on yourself, identify and reflect on what you think went wrong in the relationship. But most of all, don't blame yourself.
 
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